Dear Starters: Encouragement for Parents Raising Autistic Children in Nigeria
I see you. The quiet moments when the world feels far away, the stares that linger too long, and the questions you cannot answer. Parenting an autistic child in Nigeria can feel isolating, almost like you are walking a path no one else fully understands.
There are days filled with small victories that feel enormous. There are other days when exhaustion settles heavily on your shoulders. Through it all, your love remains the anchor that steadies your child in a world that often misunderstands autism.
Many families supported by Bethelxafe Autism Foundation share similar emotions. This journey may feel lonely, but you are never truly alone. Every step you take, no matter how unsure, is guided by love, courage, and sacrifice.
What You Feel Is Valid
It is normal to feel tired.
It is normal to feel unsure.
It is normal to wish the world understood your child better.
Give yourself permission to feel these emotions without guilt.
Building Support and Connection
Here are small reminders for the days when you feel overwhelmed:
- Seek community, even if it is just one person who understands.
- Celebrate progress, even tiny steps.
- Protect your peace with gentle routines.
- Acknowledge that you are doing your best.
Your child’s world may be different, but your presence creates a bridge of comfort and safety. You are doing enough. You are doing well.