Bethel Xafe Autism Foundation, Nigeria

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Helping Autistic Children Build Social Confidence

Social confidence does not always come naturally for autistic children. Some prefer quiet spaces, others struggle with eye contact, and some find conversations overwhelming. The goal is not to force social behavior but to support the child in a way that feels safe.

Start with Predictable Social Routines

Predictability builds confidence. Try simple routines like:

  • Greeting family members
  • Practicing turn taking
  • Short play dates with one familiar child

Use Play as a Teaching Tool

Children learn best through play. Activities like board games, building blocks, or pretend play can encourage:

  • Sharing
  • Waiting for turns
  • Expressing choices

Support Them with Social Scripts

Social scripts help children know what to say in certain situations. Examples include:

  • “Hello, my name is…”
  • “I want to play with you.”
  • “Please give me space.”

Celebrate Small Wins

A smile, a wave, or one sentence in a conversation is progress. Celebrate it.

Your encouragement builds the confidence they need.


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