Clear, consistent limits help your child feel secure. Before any activity, state both the rule and the reward: “We’ll play blocks for ten minutes, then choose a song to dance to.” Use timers with a friendly alarm or visual countdown so they know exactly when time’s up. If aggression surfaces when it’s time to transition, gently guide them back: “Timer says blocks time is done. Let’s put blocks away together.” Reward compliance immediately: “Thank you for listening; let’s pick your favorite song!” Over time, knowing what’s expected and what comes next creates predictability, lowering anxiety and the aggressive reactions that stem from uncertainty.
