When aggression escalates, safety is your top priority for your child and everyone around. Position yourself at an angle, not directly facing them, to appear less confrontational. Keep a block of clear floor space, no furniture for them to move without injury. Offer a soft barrier, like a large pillow, between you and them if they strike out. Speak in single, calm sentences: “Hands down,” or “Let’s sit.” Avoid physical restraint unless absolutely necessary and you’ve been trained; instead, guide them into a deep-pressure hug if they welcome touch. After the episode, give them time alone before approaching with comfort and empathy. Document what happened per time, triggers, and responses so you can adjust strategies and prevent repeats.
